Greetings, lightworkers and earth angels!
Today let’s tackle a very legitimate question that a lot of us ask ourselves:
What if I missed my soulmate?
What if you have missed your soulmate? What if, out in the Universe, the two of you simply have not crossed paths? Or, you did cross paths, but didn’t get a chance to talk, or something/someone distracted you and you never officially “met”?
Then you will get a second chance.
Please sit in that cocoon of peace and love for a moment and really feel it. It’s called Mercy. It’s at the heart of the New Mercy/Forgiveness Paradigm that humanity is making the shift to! Forgiveness is what opens your heart chakra, and your soulmate’s heart chakra (their 4th chakra which is your 8th chakra), and causes humanity’s collective heart chakra to open. This will heal all the Old Justice/Vengeance Paradigm notions of karmic debt, the wrath of God, and the concept of having to “pay” for making mistakes, and even the idea that if you believe that you don’t deserve your soulmate, that you will have to pay the price for having that “negative” belief by not getting them!
Now, please think of someone who has hurt you (or has hurt someone you love) in the past. Would you want them to experience never having their soulmate as punishment for what they’ve done to you? If you would, let’s simply acknowledge that for now. That’s a normal human reaction called vengeance and it helps us keep the sadness, the sadness that separation from God allows, at bay. Sadness is a potentially life-threatening emotion! The survival instinct will do whatever it takes to protect us from this pain. The problem, though, is that when we go into vengeance, we take our soulmate with us, even if we don’t know them.
The chakra mirror math that reveals our 8th chakra (our soulmate’s 4th chakra) also reveals the 4 chakra mirrors. The four mirrors are the 7/1, comprised of the crown chakra and root chakra, the 6/2, comprised of the third eye chakra and the sacral chakra, the 5/3, comprised of the throat chakra and the solar plexus chakra, and the 4/4 chakra mirror, comprised of our heart chakra and our soulmate’s heart chakra. The mirror part means that, for example, the 7th chakra is as open as the 1st and that a 1st chakra issue is really also a 7th chakra issue! And the same with the 6/2 and the 5/3 and the 4/4. So a vengeance issue in your 4th chakra is also reflective of an 8th chakra blockage.
So the good news is that the act of forgiveness in our life is the gift of love to their life. The flip side is, the withholding of forgiveness in our life is the theft of love from their life. Something to keep in mind as you decide to click into that Mercy/Forgiveness energy more and more often. Your soulmate could be in a dark place right now and your act of love could be just the burst of light to get them through it!
Now, forgiveness (which opens the 4th — and 8th! — chakra) requires acknowledging the sadness that separation from God allows. But until and unless we know how to forgive, it’s not safe to acknowledge sadness. A vicious cycle ensues.
And vengeance isn’t the only tool the survival instinct can use to protect us from sadness — from the pain of acknowledging sadness. It can use pride which is the denial of sadness (“I choose not to feel sadness; don’t take it personally; no one can hurt me without my permission”), it can use anger, and it can use vengeance (“They’ll get theirs, what goes around comes around”).
Mercy is a powerful cleansing healing energy that goes into your heart chakra and washes away all pain and suffering and leaves Joy in its place. To invoke this power, simply forgive.
Let’s do it together, starting with the first 2 steps of the Forgiveness Method:
Ask God to surround you with 1,000 angels of forgiveness. These angels work with Archangel Zadkiel — their energy is profoundly moving. It is like bright purple starbursts flooding into your aura and filling all your auric wounds and opening your heart.
Ask God to let your guardian angel stand behind you and flood your heart with love. Really feel the warm love of this angel — she is probably a feminine polarity angel though some incarnated angels have Archangel Gabriel or Archangel Michael as their guardian angel, especially those in law enforcement and other areas of the justice system. And a lot of reiki and sound healers have Archangel Raphael as their guardian angel. Feel the hands of this angel resting gently on your shoulders, flooding you with divine love.
Okay, so now you’ve asked,
“God, please surround me with 1,000 angels of forgiveness. Please let my guardian angel stand behind me and flood my heart with love.”
(What’s up with all the pleases and permission requests, right? It’s about inviting God into your 7th chakra of authority, making only God’s Will the dominant force/energy “up in” your crown chakra, neutralizing the influence of any energy up there not aligned to New Mercy/Forgiveness Paradigm and love and joy and healing, etc.)
Now, ask yourself, “Do I understand that my soulmate could not feel Love when he/she did not seek and find me and that’s why she/he has hurt me by not seeking and finding me?” (Remember, we’re acknowledging that Separation from God temporarily allows us to be hurt, to feel pain, to accidentally miss our own soulmate, and even to believe that we don’t have a soulmate — but it also allows us to experience the bliss of Oneness, so thank God for Separation!)
Now, I want you to get to “yes” here, but if this isn’t enough, then click on “Try the Method” above and go through the entire forgiveness method, forgiving your soulmate for hurting you by not loving you the way God did in Heaven when all souls were still merged into Oneness.
Remember, the temporary inability to feel God’s Love that Separation allows is also what causes accidents – trips, falls, car accidents, etc. Going forward, I ask you to please consider the fact that you don’t have your soulmate yet to be an accident! After all, you would never deliberately hurt each other in this way!
Now, forgive this person, giving the intense desire for his or her happiness anyway to God, in the form of a prayer:
“Please God, let my soulmate be healed of all pain and sadness and filled with Love. Please don’t let this person hurt anyone else the way they have hurt me by not seeking and finding me. Please let us both be healed of all pain and sadness and filled with Joy by the power of your love.”
Now, turn it around — their heart chakra is your 8th chakra, and your heart chakra is their 8th chakra. So maybe it’s them but maybe it’s you not seeking and finding them! In that case (and in case that is the case), let’s forgive ourselves now too, for hurting them. Remember, because of the nature of the 4/4 chakra mirror, if you are wanting them, they are wanting you too. To forgive ourselves, we ask,
“Please God, let me be healed of all pain and sadness and filled with love. Please don’t let me hurt anyone else in the same way I hurt my soulmate by not [seeking and] finding my soulmate [successfully]. Let us both be healed of all pain and sadness and filled with Joy, by the power of your love.”
Now, some people don’t want their soulmate and aren’t looking — they will say interesting things like, “It’s time for me to just work on myself right now.” That’s cool — their soulmate is probably in a similar emotional space. Let’s join in prayer with their guardian angels for both of them to be filled with joy and love and to reunite in totally harmonious awesome ways when the time is ideal. YOU, on the other hand, keep forgiving, every morning and every night, knowing that this simple desire for each other’s happiness anyway, not because anyone has earned it with behavior that deserves it — Old J/V style — but simply because they exist — New M/F style — is what will allow you to click into that Mercy Cocoon, a very safe loving awesome space where you know that the timing is always perfect, even if you rejected your soulmate or they rejected you! It is inevitable that you will get that second — or third or fourth or fifth! — chance.
You are loved! By God and by all the angels in the Universe. I desire your happiness — anyway — right now today.
Angel blessings to you,
Snow Angel ^i^
P.S. On Friday, I’ll post an interesting follow up post on the top 4 reasons that soulmates are having trouble uniting or re-uniting on the Earth plane.